From co-worker to lover to co-worker – do you fit into this scenario?
Creating deliberate distance from your ex is a key ingredient in the prescription for recovery.
You are in the presence of this person all day and are experiencing the effects of “in sight and in mind”. Write it in code (if you have to) and put it on a post-it next to your computer, phone etc.
“George came up to me at a party once and said “my Paul is to me what your Paul is to you.” He meant that psychologically they had the same effect on us. I think George felt suppressed by Paul and I think that’s what he saw with me and my Paul.
It’s coming back to me now, almost as if retrieved by hypnosis. Gay, who seemed like a decent enough guy, eventually balked at clipping our heads with a scissors.
Since the final result was hairlessness, he didn’t see why he couldn’t save lots of time-not to mention his mental health-by simply plugging in a razor. I can’t exaggerate the exhaustion for all involved in going to Michael’s.
I hear Art Garfunkel before I see him, singing to himself as he drifts across the hotel lobby in a blue T-shirt, heading for the lifts.
At 73 his golden curls have become white dandelion seeds, and he is not as tall as you might imagine — an illusion that was probably created during all those years standing next to the diminutive Paul Simon. I want you to respect it.” But I do, I say, I do – which is why I’ve already bought my tickets to see him in concert when he returns to London in the autumn, to play at the Royal Albert Hall. I imagine we have now done 1/8th of our interview.” I check my watch.
As Carly Simon is showing me around her house on Martha’s Vineyard, Massachusetts, she mentions, matter-of-factly, that it is haunted.