Validating yourself

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Judging yourself is the opposite of validating yourself, and creates much inner pain and insecurity.

Self-judgment is generally a form of control to get yourself to do things "right" so that others will validate you and approve of you.

Many people also gain lifelong friends after the joining a fraternity or sorority.

While showing interest in a Greek organization you will learn how to push yourself and get out of your comfort zone which will help you advance in many areas of your life.

Here are some obvious things about the weather: It's real. If it's dark and rainy, it really is dark and rainy, and you can't alter it. Our decrepit, depraved hearts must be completely ripped out in order to welcome that of God.” ― Criss Jami tags: apologetics, authority, bible, bible-study, broken, christian, confirmation, correction, cripple, decrepit, defense, depravity, development, double-edged-sword, god, gods-word, growth, healing, heart, humility, learning, medicine, offended, scripture, shield, sidekick, study, sword, theology, transformation, understanding, validation, wounds, wounds-to-the-heart tags: aphorism, aphorisms, aphorist, aphorists, approval, approve, child, children, depress, depressed, depression, funny, humor, humour, jealous, jealousy, joke, jokes, parent, parents, please, please-parent, please-parents, satire, sibling, sibling-rivalry, siblings, suicidal, suicide, validate, validation “I find that I spend a tremendous amount of time chasing the praises of men rather than sitting with the praises of God.

Here are some obvious things about the weather: It's real. If it's dark and rainy, it really is dark and rainy, and you can't alter it. Our decrepit, depraved hearts must be completely ripped out in order to welcome that of God.” ― Criss Jami tags: apologetics, authority, bible, bible-study, broken, christian, confirmation, correction, cripple, decrepit, defense, depravity, development, double-edged-sword, god, gods-word, growth, healing, heart, humility, learning, medicine, offended, scripture, shield, sidekick, study, sword, theology, transformation, understanding, validation, wounds, wounds-to-the-heart tags: aphorism, aphorisms, aphorist, aphorists, approval, approve, child, children, depress, depressed, depression, funny, humor, humour, jealous, jealousy, joke, jokes, parent, parents, please, please-parent, please-parents, satire, sibling, sibling-rivalry, siblings, suicidal, suicide, validate, validation “She ran straight into Leo’s open arms, unable to stop the tears from falling, feeling at last defended, like a single musical note that had finally found the symphony to which it belonged.” ― Natasha Lester, “I find that I spend a tremendous amount of time chasing the praises of men rather than sitting with the praises of God.Lounsbrough “Discover a deep, healthy love for yourself....The problem with comparing yourself to others is that there will always be someone with more than you.It is a wonderful, light, consuming feeling we long for, and once found, we hope—even expect—it will forever remain.But there are times when that most precious love is revoked, and a hard scab forms over the empty hole.As you learn to attend to your feelings and validate the information they are giving you, you will start to feel a deeper sense of self-worth and self-esteem.

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