But as the infatuation starts to fade and steady love starts to set in, the same gestures you use to decipher love *infatuation* can’t be used anymore, not when love takes a truer and deeper form.
Your guy may buy you gifts or indulge in romantic gestures to please you and woo you, and they definitely work!
He Has a Recurring Thing for You Sometimes a man will express that he loves you in simple gestures.
He will develop a little thing he does regularly so you know he cares.
"Love is a many splendored thing," is a wonderful old song. When we are children we are content with maternal love and familial bonds.
But what matters is what your lover does to reassure you, and make you feel more loved. One day, he is caring and loving and wonderful, and the next he is hateful and raging and mean. You are afraid to talk, or when you do talk you feel like you are never heard, your words are taken out of context, misunderstood, or blatantly ignored. In the beginning of a relationship they might seem like everything you ever wanted….usually this is because they are trying to act like everything you ever wanted. You have no support group and therefore your partner gains more power. He or she might be mean to people they think are “below them” or people who are defenseless, like babies or children. Like flipping a switch, he can change drastically from one extreme to the next. He or she acts one way when they are around you, but completely different around your parents, and completely different around their friends. Slowly, you lose your friends until you feel like your partner is the only person you have left. Your partner cycles from mean and vicious to sweet and loving, then back again. He might set traps for squirrels or rabbits and then torture them.But as relationships deepen most individuals feel an innate need to love and be loved in return.In the early days of romance you may often wonder how serious your man is about you?[Read: 12 real signs of true love in every relationship] Does he love me?